Sep 30, 2008

Big Heart


I didn't realized I received an award from Emily some times ago...sorry. I guess I've been too caught up with the recent happenings. Anyway, I know this award has been passed around quite a number of time, so I chose not to give it to anybody. Thanks for thinking of me though, Emily!

Sep 28, 2008

I missed it!

I normally don't ramble when I blog, but here I am not knowing what to do so I guess I'll do just that.

You see, I woke this morning feeling content or rather confident that I have packed everything I need for this trip and that I have my passport ready (I left my Mykad in KK). At 1.30 pm, Bo was already ready with the cats and Noah and we double checked the house to see if everything's in place and the backyard doors are locked. My luggage has been loaded into the car and we had enough time to send the cats and Noah to the boarding place. Noah was excited to be at his favourite kennel and I was happy to see him like that. He didn't like the new place I took him to and I suspected that the Bangla' worker abuses him in some way.

Anyway, we reached the airport at half past 2. Bo parked his car at the valet and said maybe we could go buy some free duty things before I board the plane. We had lot of time to spare, or so I thought. When I reached the check in counter, the lady said I missed the plane. The departure time is NOT at 4pm as I thought but at 2.15pm. Gasps!! Not to be panicked easily, I asked the MAS staff my options. As told, I went to the ticketing counter and see if I can do something about my ticket. As luck would have it, I got to change my ticket to 'open' until next year with a fee of USD20. However, all economy seat is full until 9.50pm at night. Bo & I decided that maybe I should take the business class seat. He has to leave for JB in a bit and I have about 4 hours to spare and who wouldn't want to spend 4 hours in the Golden Club Lounge where everything is free?

So here I am, typing this post from KLIA golden club lounge. A bit glad that I missed the flight. *wink*

By the way, if you have experienced missing a flight before and not ashamed of sharing the stories with us... please do so. I know I am not alone, or at least don't want to be.

Selamat Hari Raya

It's been a very hectic week for me since the last time I blogged. Thank you to all who have left comments of their condolences on my granny's passing. Me & my family appreciate each and every one of them.

I barely unpacked my luggage from the previous trip and last night I packed again. I know Raya this year won't be as merry as previous ones but I have never felt Raya as a joyous occasions anyway. Have you ever realized that whenever Raya comes around, there will be tears and apologizes as if you have done so many bad things to people since the last Raya? The first thing you do in the morning is to gather with your parents/family members and apologize. You shake hands with people and wish them Raya and then apologize 'zahir & batin'? To tell you the truth I don't even know what these two words mean!

But as the tradition goes, that's exactly what I'll be doing on the first day of Raya just like every years previously. Not that I think it's necessary to ask forgiveness since I am the kind of person who says sorry right away if I think I've done something wrong. I don't like to hold grudges and definitely don't like others to feel so against me.

Anyway, I finished packing and soon will be on my way to the airport. I don't pack lightly so wish me luck at the airport. Hope that my luggage won't excess weight. I am not sure when how long I'll be in KK but I am sure that Noah & the cats will be in good hands at Ms. Tan's and the house will be safe.

I look forward to golfing with my dad and golf buddies in KK, of course after the first day of Raya. Dad already booked the courses for Saturday and Sunday! So, Selamat Hari Raya & Maaf Zahir & Batin to all!

Sep 21, 2008

And she's gone...

Last Wednesday, I received the phone call from my sister telling me that granny was gone. Honestly, I wasn't shocked. In fact, I felt sort of relieved. Don't take it wrongly, she has been ill for as long as I could remember, and I take any ways that can make her suffering end and pain disappear. There was no way she could be better.

Nevertheless, I rushed home to be with the family. I want to be there for them and to help as much as I could. Luckily, MAS has got empty seats left. I went to Labuan to pick up my sister and together we went back to KK for the trip back to Kota Marudu.

We arrived almost midnight, and mom was worried when I told her I may want to hire a car and drive down that night itself. She went on & on about a girl that was killed some time ago on the way to UMS. She had my uncle picked me up and made us wait till the next day for the trip down to Kota Marudu with them. Since I missed the funeral already, I didn't mind.

When we arrived the next morning, I was greeted with sad faces and swollen eyes, proof that they have been crying. We hugged and talked a bit about the late granny. I couldn't help but cried silently. But after the eyes dried, I caught up with my cousins whom I haven't seen for ages. And then the work begins... The cooking and the groceries shopping. It was hectic, the 2 days I was there.

I am sad that granny was gone, but the funeral also brought us families together. I saw brothers who haven't talked for years talked again. Divorced parents sat side by side. Met a grand aunt I thought I never have... Little cousins who have grown up to be handsome young men.. Nephews and nieces who have grown up, the made me feel so old. It's a reunion, may not be a happy one but despite the sadness, there is a reason for this to happen.

It's all because she's gone... who knows when will be the next time we gather again like this for 3 days straight?

Sep 16, 2008

A touching account from a West Malaysian doctor.

Another forwarded email I received from a dear friend. The content of the email touched me in many ways, for half of me is originated from Kota Marudu. I can't really find words to comment on this email but thought that sharing it with fellow blogger can make the same impact I had when I read it.

Please, feel free to pass around the note or re-post them in your blogs. Maybe, just maybe someday, it will reach someone who can make a difference. Until the day comes, we can only hope for the betterment of the people in rural areas.

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Don't neglect Sabah , please

Another Doctor | Sep 8, 08 5:11pm

I refer to the Malaysiakini article Kota Marudu needs more than wireless Internet.

I read Dr Hams letter and cannot help but agree with many of his observations. I worked in Sabah for over seven years as a house officer and medical officer. After my housemanship, I was sent to Ranau to serve in the district hospital. What Dr Hams described in Kota Marudu is not something isolated to that district alone in Sabah . It is an often repeated story in the whole of Sabah .

My first introduction to the poverty in Sabah came during my first months there, when a sweet 70- year-old lady from Kota Marudu was sent to the Queen Elizabeth Hospital with deep jaundice. She lived alone in a small village off Kota Marudu and noticed the jaundice about a month before.

She had no money for the taxi fare and so waited a month to sell off her chickens to have enough money to pay RM50 for the transport to Kota Marudu Hospital . She had to walk two miles to get to the road to get to the taxi.

Having been born, bred and educated in Peninsular Malaysia, I was shocked. When she arrived, she was septic and had a gallstone lodged in her common bile duct. The stone was duly removed but she was found to have a heart problem that required a pacemaker. We arranged for her to get a permanent pacemaker but she refused.

When I pressed her for her reason, she told me that she couldn't afford to buy batteries for the pacemaker, having sold off her chickens. Once I explained to her that the batteries would last for years and we would provide them, she agreed to the pacemaker.

Ranau town itself has roads and is on the main highway between Sandakan and Kota Kinabalu. It developed primarily as a result of the Mamut Copper Mines in the district. However, highway in this context means a two lane road with frequent landslides and potholes, with a two-hour drive to Kota Kinabalu.

Outside Ranau, transportation becomes a problem as tarred roads disappear to become gravel or crudely marked logging trails. Anyone who has worked in Sabah would have the same stories to tell, of extreme poverty and poor transportation.

During my 2 years in Ranau, I've heard and seen it all, patients with cerebral malaria, a condition unheard of in Peninsular Malaysia, coming in after 48 hours to the hospital from places like Kaingaran and Karagasan, with relatives having to push the 'pirate taxi' through the mud, spending RM50 on fare during the monsoon season, the equivalent of 2 months income, this too when petrol was only around RM1.20 a litre in Ranau.

Patients having to delay treatment for life threatening conditions because a bridge washed away along the trail (I won't even call it a road) to Tambunan. Emergency surgery such as caesarian sections, appendectomies and even ectopic pregnancies had to be performed in our little district hospitals by Medical Officers with little more than 4 months housemanship experience.

Medical emergencies such as myocardial infarctions, which in Peninsular Malaysia would be managed in a Coronary Care Unit setting, had to be managed in the district hospital level. I'm grateful however, that my staff in that hospital were the best I've ever had the pleasure of working with and were dedicated enough to want to make a difference in their patients' lives.

But poor transportation does not only affect the access to healthcare. Having no roads to be able to transport their agricultural produce for sale means that these people are stuck in a never ending cycle of poverty.

At most, some of them get RM20 to RM50 by selling their produce to middlemen to be sold at the monthly tamu or market at prices that are perhaps only 10 percent of the value of the goods. These innocent people are also preyed upon by traveling cloth merchants, mostly foreigners, who offer them 'easy payment schemes' to buy cloth for clothes, and when they cannot pay for the cloth and the interest accumulates, they end up having to marry their daughters to these men, who often have wives back home in Pakistan.

One of the cases I could never forget was of the family who came to Ranau Hospital just as I was leaving, a family who had failed crops, were hungry and unable to get food. The father collected some toad eggs and fed them to the whole family in a desperate attempt to stave off hunger. When they arrived at our little emergency room, one of the children were dead and two passed away within 10 minutes of arrival in our casualty unit due to poisoning.

Education is a problem in parts of Sabah outside major towns like Kota Kinabalu at the moment. Many children would be lucky to be able to get to a school or even afford to get to one. Most of my patients outside Ranau were lucky to even have a primary school education and a vast number of women marry in their teens.

I've had 14 year olds delivering babies in Ranau, most of them have never ever stepped foot in a school. The education level is so poor that many women feed their children condensed milk thinking that it's better than breast milk.

But at the heart of it all, these mothers want the best for their children but are not empowered with the knowledge to help them. Major towns in Sabah have electricity courtesy of the Sabah Electricity Board, but smaller villages have either diesel generators or rely on candles or lamps when night falls.

How can children study in these conditions? Like many doctors in the districts, I had to learn Dusun to communicate better with these patients who could speak little else.

Forty five years after the formation of Malaysia, the promise of a better life for these poor Dusun, Murut and Rungus patients in the districts of Sabah is a pipe dream at best. How can our politicians claim to have brought development to the state and have neglected these poor people, many of whom still wear the cheap t-shirts and caps given free by political parties from many elections ago.

How can I claim to be proud of Putrajaya with it's beautiful bridges and lamp posts and the Petronas twin Towers when our fellow Malaysians in Sabah are so neglected?

The cycle of poverty and illiteracy one sees in the districts in Sabah brings despair to the heart. Eradication of poverty must tackle the real issues of education and transport and not just handouts to poor people.

By all means, declare Sept 16th a public holiday, but remember it in it's real context, where we made a promise to our brethren in Sabah and Sarawak to treat them as equals in Malaysia, and give them the development they've been long denied.

Sep 15, 2008

Let's Twist!

I stumbled upon an online game with a twist... Literally.

I love word games, it makes my brain works harder.. hehehe... So, to anyone who likes to try their luck or play it just for fun, click here. I think it's open to Digi Subscribers and not sure whether it's open to other networks' subscribers too. You may win yourself some shopping vouchers.

Good Luck!

Sep 13, 2008

Brilliant!


Thank you Juliet for this award! I am not sure if my blog is brilliant but getting the award sure is something! And I know this award should also go to these fellow bloggers:
Hannie, Edna, Alice, Lucy, Ellena, Emily, and oh! I am short of one person as required/rules of the award.. (Can I still get it?) This is what happen when all bloggers in my bloglist know each other! Get what I mean?

Some rules:
1. Put the logo on your blog
2. Add a link to the person who awarded it to you
3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs
4. Add links to these blogs on your blog
5. Leave a message for your nominee on their blog

Sep 11, 2008

Exams at this age?

I went for a back massage today. I have been having back ache and muscle pain on my left thigh since an incident at the golf course a few weeks back. Of course that didn't stop me from golfing.

However, I think I need to do something about the pain. Because after waiting for a month now, the club finally called me to let me know that I have handicap exam comes Monday. I am excited. Finally, I can carry a card that states how good (or not) I am in this game. I am also nervous, because I have never done it nor have I seen this being done by other people either.

Apparently, it's so much like driver's license test. With theory examination and a practical test.. Yes, I do have to play a round of golf with an examiner so that he/she can decide whether I am ready to play serious game of golf. Also, if and when I passed the test, I will be on 'Probationary Handicap' for a certain duration of time. Luckily for me, I have been playing with single handicappers since the beginning, so I basically learned the basic rules of the game. And I think starting today, I have to take out my golf bible and study it cover to cover. I wouldn't want to take the test more than once.

And then this reminds me of the driver's test that I took when I was 18. Back then, the 'P' license was unheard of. And I was lucky that the examiner knew my uncle who's working with JPJ. It so happened that the examiner used to come to my granny's place on weekends for games of poker. Needless to say, I passed the test with flying colors.

Now, I don't know who the handicap examiner is... I am just hoping that he/she is not someone that I can't reason with... If you get my drift.. hehehe!

Sep 10, 2008

Christmas gifts!


I was over at Chegu Carol's blog and she blogged something on Christmas. I know, Raya isn't here yet and we are already talking about Christmas?

You see, being brought up in a mostly Christian family, I couldn't help but feel that Christmas is part of tradition. Having to come from a multi-racial background, my family celebrate Raya, Christmas, Chinese New Year and other holy days (both for Muslims and Christians alike). But Christmas particularly brings excitement to me like no other religious celebrations. Maybe because of what usually happens on that day, rather than the reasons for celebrating: Giving and Getting presents!

Just as the Filipinos as told by Carol, I also start shopping for Christmas as early as in August. Hey! It's the time of Malaysia Grand Sale and how else can you get good stuffs on bargain? Speaking of which, I haven't finished the gifts shopping just yet. This can drain my purse and burn holes in my pockets but seeing the faces of my families when they open the packages is out of this world. That is why I put so much thought in choosing the perfect gifts for everyone and that's very time consuming - sounds familiar?

On the other hand, I can just gallivanting around when I see something that would be perfect for someone and I just buy it right away and then save it for Christmas. This way, I can get the feeling that I don't spend that much on the gifts. Get it?

That reminds me, I haven't started shopping for my little cousins Christmas presents yet... I may have to spend hours in Toys 'R Us soon... What toys are supposed to be 'in' now? Any mommies out there can give some advices?

my date every Sundays...



It started 3 weeks ago. I was at the bazaar in Bangsar and saw a lady with a few stalks of lilies in her arm. I thought the lilies looked gorgeous and I looked around trying to find the vendor. And I saw him! I went to his stall and purchased my first ever fresh flowers for the new house. 3 stalks of Lilies and a bunch of colorful roses.

The roses didn't last long. They were all dried up by the end of the week. But the lilies, not only they last for almost 2 weeks, they smell very good too... Basically, I didn't have to burn the essential oil while I had the lilies in the hall.

So, I made it a note that I'd have a date with the florist uncle every Sundays for fresh flowers...

I went again last Sunday since the weekend before the uncle wasn't around. I was happy to see the uncle there with his beautiful fresh flowers. Can't help posting their pictures... The best part is they are cheaper than any florist out there. All 4 types of the flowers cost me RM38.00... That's for 2 stalks of lilies, a bouquet of carnation, a bouquet of gerbera daisies and a bouquet of white roses.



Note: White roses are placed in my bedroom so no picture.. hehehe

Sep 7, 2008

Why did the chicken cross the road?




This was forwarded to me in an email, it made me laugh... therefore, would like to share it with you.

______________________________________________________________________

BARACK OBAMA:
The chicken crossed the road because it was time for a CHANGE! The chicken
wanted CHANGE!

JOHN MCCAIN:
My friends, that chicken crossed the road because he recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialogue with all the chickens on the other side of the road.

HILLARY CLINTON:
When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to ensure -- right from Day One! -- that every chicken in this country gets the chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn't about me.......

GEORGE W. BUSH:
We don't really care why the chicken crossed the road. We just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.


JOHN LENNON:
Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together, in peace.

BILL GATES:
I have just released eChicken2007, which will not only cross roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your check book. Internet Explorer is an integral part of the Chicken.. This new platform is much more stable and will never cra...#@&&^C% .......... reboot.


BILL CLINTON:
I did not cross the road with THAT chicken. What is your definition of chicken?

AL GORE:
I invented the chicken!


ABDULLAH BADAWI:
We have to be fair to all chickens. Some want to cross over the road, some do not. ........ Zzzzzz .......zzzzzz ........ Now what were we talking about? Ah yes, chickens. We will form a Royal Commission to decide whether it is right for them to cross the road.


MAHATHIR:
Now even the non-bumi chickens want to cross the road? How can they disrespect and disregard the bumi chickens? We must be allowed to cross over first. It is our right!

ANWAR:
We have enough chickens waiting to cross over in September.

SHAHRIR SAMAD:
All foreign chickens are welcome in Malaysia but they must not cross over the road within 50km of the border.

WONG KAN SENG:
I am sorry that the chicken was allowed to cross the road. It was an HONEST MISTAKE. Let's move on.

OSAMA:
Our chickens have explosive eggs to kill the infidels on the otherside of the road!


SAIDFUL:
Saya Sumpah, I was the CHICKEN!!

Sep 5, 2008

It's great to have you back!

I have the tendency for my phones to break down ever so often. Maybe that's why I end up with 4 mobile phones at the moment. Of course, I only use 2 at a time. In case you are wondering why I need to maintain 2 phones, let me tell you I am not 'Ahlong'. But I've been getting prank calls and text messages on my general line that I had to get another line exclusively for Bo so I won't miss his calls.

Recently, I sent 2 of my phones for repair. It took the service center a month to fix them and cost me RM300, but hey! it's cheaper than getting a new phone, right? While waiting, I bought a very basic Nokia phone at RM100. I think the model is 1200. It looks like this;


I had fun with this little fella for the last one month. I accidentally left it in the buggy at the club house and restaurants a few times, but it was still there when I went back. Nobody wants to steal this guy! Unbelievable yet true.

As much fun as I had with it, I switched back to the phone I used. I brought back the phones home and had their batteries charged. Not until I switched the Sony Ericsson on that I realized there was a sticker on the LCD. I was touched when I read the note, and then I realized how much I missed using it. Here's what it says.


Oh Sony! It's so great to have you back too!

Sep 4, 2008

My version of walk-in wardrobe

What a girl to do when she has so many clothes and so little space to put them?

When I was staying at the apartment, I had 2 built-in wardrobe installed in the bedroom and the smaller room. The main wardrobe for my dresses and the other one to store my winter jackets, gowns, belts, beddings, shoes, socks etc etc... They were enough. But when I moved to the new place, I realized my lack of wardrobe space. Panicked but not to give up, I tried finding ideas on how to store my clothes. I bought a chest of drawers and a 10 footer wardrobe but apparently they aren't enough space still. Though the bedroom I have now is way bigger than the one I had in the apartment, there is still not enough space to properly store my clothes.

And so I dragged Bo to Ikea and bought some clothes racks and shelves. Since the family area upstairs was empty, I thought I might as well utilize it to store my clothing. Right after the handyman assembled all the racks and shelves, I excitedly begin my works at arranging the clothes and shoes and bags that were before put in 2 boxes in the storeroom. It was exciting, really! Even more exciting after I finished everything. Now, it's easier for me to find what I'd want to wear.

OK, You may wonder why I use the family room and not one of the 3 extra bedrooms I have in the house. I have 3 other bedrooms in the house, I know it's a big house. All the bedrooms have been taken up for different purposes. The guest room downstairs has been turned into our study. The bedroom 1 is where the girls stay and bedroom 2 is for guest who wishes to stay with me. So, I have no choice but to put my clothing in the open space of the family area.

I am just hoping that no weird bug would attack my clothes, shoes and bags or I will burn the house down! Anyway, here are some pictures for you to get some ideas on how they look like.




I'm missing body foam and a life size mirror and maybe a little island bar in the middle for accessories. Hehehehe....

Flu bug stunk

It's almost 5am in the morning. I was awaken by my blocked nose and hot flush, which is odd. If I was to have fever or flu, shouldn't I be feeling cold instead?

Mom told me not to play under the rain but since she's not around to nag, I took the opportunity to do just that. It's just that I forgot that the rain we had more than 10 years ago was not the same as we are getting now. Especially, now that I'm staying near an industrial area. Who knows what sort of chemicals could be in the drops.

I am no near to feeling sleepy. It's still dark outside, maybe I'll watch Marilyn Monroe's Gentlemen Prefer Blondes and go for a run with Noah later. Hope that I'll feel better after that. It's gonna be a long day today.

Sep 3, 2008

Those were the days...

I was watching tv with the girls just now when I saw a snippet on Beverly Hills 90210. OMG! Flashback to all those years when big hair was in...

I remember waiting anxiously if I'm not mistaken on a school night for the show to come on TV2... Those days, Astro was unheard of. My parents would turn off the TV and told us to sleep early but my brother and me would sneak out to watch the show anyway with volume down and lights off. It was a treat if we get to watch how Brenda & Brian tried to adapt to living in Beverly Hills.

My mind drifted to those years. When I was still a teenager, eager to be part of the trend. While my cousins were the only friends I knew and could trust, I looked up to the older ones for trendy tips. I remember trying to get my bang up ala Cindy Lauper, but failed miserably because I had had such fine hair. I used to nag my parents on buying me carrot cut jeans (Thanks to MC Hammer) because I just had to wear it with the oversize t-shirts my aunts got me for Christmas. I loved my aunt Judy especially for getting me that high cut Reebok sneakers and I couldn't stop wearing them everyday because it was such a big thing back then. And then for school, I insisted that the seamstress did my pinafore in a way that resembled an umbrella. Because everybody else did the same. And then, Swatch was a must have. If you haven't got one, you haven't got the style or so we thought.

Sweet time those years. When we didn't have to worry about anything but study and boyfriends. When money was not in our mind, just fancy stuffs that our parents got for us. Worries were little, gossips were aplenty. How things have changed. The only thing that lasts is the friendship we made as we grow old...

Sep 1, 2008

52 kg? You must be kidding me!

I finally got a battery for the weighing scale I got from the golf game yesterday. Anxiously, I put the battery in and weigh myself. I almost fainted when I saw the number appeared. 52 kg!!! And my body consists of 27% fat!! I just can't believe it.

You see, I was a bony teenager and I can say that I was a late bloomer. My body was at its best shape in my early twenties, and I took it for granted. I didn't watch my activities and food & beverage consumptions. I was adventurous when it comes to food and drinks. I guess the body fat I'm currently having is the result of years of neglecting my BMI issues.

It's no wonder that I can't fit into my favorite jeans and tank tops. It's no wonder that bulges appear all over. It must be the food I ate and the lack of exercise over the years. Come to think of it, before golf, the only exercise I did was dancing in the club, after consuming massive amount of alcohol. Hardly any exercise at all!

I need to do something about this body issue of mine, starting with watching what I eat. This will involve strict diet plan and seriously sticking to it. Also, need to take out my trainers from the box tucked away in the storage room and start jogging again. Oh my!
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